My friends often call me a pessimist, but the truth is I am always expecting the unexpected. We can never be sure what tomorrow has in store for us because in a moment things can change in our lives. I am always very attentive to this 'philosophy', and rarely like to plan things in advance. And very often when I do, something always comes up... If I say to somebody 'I will see you tomorrow' how do I know I will? I quite often say 'god willing'. This is not a way of copping out, or putting the blame on someone else; but rather a way of accepting that some things are beyond our control, and they are. I often think about the Maddie case in the Algarve. How many times did the McCann's interrogate themselves as to why, on that night, did they leave their children alone? When something happens to us we often think of the alternatives and how things might have been if we'd have done things differently. Just that one moment that changed everything. So what a...
My brother once told me when I was about 7 that I didn't really exist, that I was just a figment of his imagination as he slept. This really made me think, could he be right? What is reality anyway?....since then (and maybe even before)I have always been intriguesd as to why we exist. This blog is a place for me to write my thoughs on life, death, love, hate and all the rest of the things men (and women) do under the sun...feel free to comment.